Your wedding invitation is the first glimpse your loved ones will get of the celebration you’re planning. Choosing invitations that reflect your unique style, color palette, or theme adds a personal touch, letting family and friends feel the vibe right from the start. Here is some thoughtful advice on selecting wedding invitations to help capture your vision as a couple and set the perfect tone for your day.
Your wedding invitation is the first impression that guests will have into your big day. It is key to double-check the information to ensure accuracy and avoid any last-minute surprises.
It's fun to choose invitations that reflect your style and personality.
Consider the style of your wedding: The style of your wedding can also influence your invitation selection. If you're having a formal wedding, choose invitations with a more traditional design. If your wedding is more casual, you can opt for something playful or whimsical.
Find inspiration for your wedding invitations by browsing online websites, wedding blogs, or Pinterest . Save designs you like to guide your search.
Photographer-Aida Malik
Suite-Chanson Creative
Don't forget the details: Pay attention is essential When selecting wedding invitations. Make sure the invitation font and wording match the overall tone of your wedding, and consider adding special touches like metallic accents or custom envelope liners. Ask a professional like your wedding planner or design expert when in doubt.
Remember, “You get what you pay for”. The quality of the paper matters. The quality of your invitation is important—consider choosing a two or four-ply thickness, or even adding a touch of elegance with gold foil. Some guests will save your invitation as a keepsake. *requires additional postage
Wax seals are always a win. Yes, you can mail envelopes with wax seals on them. “A wax seal on a wedding invitation is more than just a decorative touch; it symbolizes the commitment, elegance, and timeless beauty of the love story that’s about to unfold.”
Indicate the correct time on your invitations; let’s not keep guests waiting.
Experiment with various edge shapes, such as beveled, straight, scalloped, or laser-cut, to find the perfect look and feel for your wedding invitations.
Play with fonts and find the one that you love. Consider Modern & Stylish, Serif, or Script to name a few. You can mix and match the script with serif or sans-serif fonts to balance elegance and readability.
Order at least 10-15% more than needed to plan for changed addresses and last-minute add-ons. The extra quantity helps cover mistakes and last-minute additions.
Mail your invitations 8 weeks before the wedding date. If you’re planning for a destination 12 weeks.
Schedule RSVPs three weeks before your final count with the venue. Capture this information virtually or return mail (pre-addressed envelope)
Don’t forget to place stamps on invitations and RSVPs. Add postage to your wedding budget. ensuring the timely and proper delivery of your invitations and moving the planning process along.
For beautifully curated, one-of-a-kind designs with coordinating accessories, Minted and Zola are fantastic options. Looking for something even more distinctive, like a couture invitation suite, full event branding, or bespoke details? I highly recommend Ceci New York and By Dami Studios NYC—these designers deliver elegance and originality every time.
Ready to bring your vision to life with unforgettable invitations? Let’s work together to create a wedding that’s perfectly you, right from the first impression. Reach out today to discuss your ideas, explore options from our trusted design partners, and make every detail of your celebration fabulous.
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